natural parenting and the tempermental ten year old

I have a confession to make. I have very little patience when it comes to temper tantrums. This is something I'm working on. I read parenting books, blogs, and even facebook pages constantly. My son has TS and one of the bad things about it is he often has trouble controlling his emotions and temper. We are working on this. We made a pack(a pinky promise) to try to not get upset with each other. I think we have made major steps forward, although today he had a big meltdown. He did come find me about twenty minutes later and apologize, saying that hunger makes him cranky. I love my son!